if you don't have anything nice to say shut the fuck up

Not okay guys: slandering another man in order to get attention of a lady...this isn't something that's talked about but it really needs to be addressed...I see it quite too often; gentlemen are competing for the attention and affection of a lady and they start mudslinging at each other in hopes...well I don't know what the Fuck they hope, I suppose they think that they can speak so badly of the other guy, the girl would realize what an amazing person he is and fall into his arms...I'm sure this is the case if the girl is a retard but more often than not, she realizes what a shady little piece of shit you are.

While an active member of my fraternity, we often encouraged our potential pledges to go out and look at other frats to see if they were right for them, if they came back, GREAT! if not...meh

the rushees would come back telling us about what all the other fraternities said...my response would usually be to shrug my shoulders and reply if that were true I wouldn't be standing promoting this organization. I think the same is true for women...if the gal is so susceptible to gossip and side talk, I probably wouldn't consider her a keeper...

What is okay: I will seldom lie for my friends unless I've been sworn to secrecy or whatever fib I'm withholding could jeopardize their career, relationships, or personal lives...I speak highly of other people and try to speak as highly as I can without kissing their ass. For example, John Rojas is a stand up guy, which is quite true...John Rojas is an awesome fucking dude....but I don't need to mention any of his flaws or the fact that he bullies me....why? Well it’s not necessary, it's shows you have no class, and I don't like people knowing I get picked on by a guy who's 5'5 and 140lbs...Sorry yonny beby...

The point I'm trying to make is if you need to talk shit about another guy to make yourself you're probably not too much of a prize piece yourself...I got plenty of people I despise but if a girl I like has even a remote interest in any if those guys...definitely not for me.